You are a mean and thoughtless person. I'm sure you'll be a great mental health therapist (sarcasm there). I have a list as long as my arm of reasons I could use for late and flaked swaps. I join what I can manage and I've never sent late, never flaked. Save your whiney and self-righteous excuses because you won't get any pity from me. Shame on you and shame on any swap host that allows you in her swap.
Yes, life does happen. We all have things happen suddenly or unexpectedly, but it's how you choose to handle things that make a difference and prove you are genuine. You have signed up for one of my swaps, along with many others, despite the fact you have (8) 1 ratings. Those are swaps you owe people. You really need to contact each of them and make up all those swaps you flaked on before continuing to sign up. Because of how you are choosing to handle your situation, looks bad, and I think a lot of hosts would not allow you in their swaps. On the other hand, if you had things happening and you get to work on making things right, instead of signing up for swaps, that shows true intent and would make all the difference in the world. You shouldn't be asking people to contact you. This is your situation to straighten out, and it's not up to them to check and see if you've come back. I hope you will do the right thing and work on resolving things.
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You are a mean and thoughtless person. I'm sure you'll be a great mental health therapist (sarcasm there). I have a list as long as my arm of reasons I could use for late and flaked swaps. I join what I can manage and I've never sent late, never flaked. Save your whiney and self-righteous excuses because you won't get any pity from me. Shame on you and shame on any swap host that allows you in her swap.
Yes, life does happen. We all have things happen suddenly or unexpectedly, but it's how you choose to handle things that make a difference and prove you are genuine. You have signed up for one of my swaps, along with many others, despite the fact you have (8) 1 ratings. Those are swaps you owe people. You really need to contact each of them and make up all those swaps you flaked on before continuing to sign up. Because of how you are choosing to handle your situation, looks bad, and I think a lot of hosts would not allow you in their swaps. On the other hand, if you had things happening and you get to work on making things right, instead of signing up for swaps, that shows true intent and would make all the difference in the world. You shouldn't be asking people to contact you. This is your situation to straighten out, and it's not up to them to check and see if you've come back. I hope you will do the right thing and work on resolving things.