vanillaperv

I love doing blog swaps, but I also understand that my blog is not for everyone because it deals with graphic sex. Above I have linked to my blog, Vanilla Perv, which is about sex. I have also linked to my good friend Lola's blog about happiness. We are trying to support each other in our new blogging adventures, although Lola is not yet on Swap-Bot. I've also linked to the blog of Lola's ex's cats.

Anyway, if you feel uncomfy following/reading about/commenting on sex, I'll rate a five plus a heart if you leave a nice message and follow Lola's blog, although there's no need to mention Swap-Bot because I'm not sure that she knows what it is. (It's probably best to PM me if you go for this option because I don't have editing rights at these other blogs and might not see your comments.)

I'm a writer, a blogger, a feminist. I believe in exploring life with an open mind. I never did learn how to sew or cook. I got a D in Home Ec when I was a kid. I'm still trying to learn how to cook, but at this age, maybe I should give up already. As you can see, my hair is just as unruly as I am. I can't do anything about that. I do my best not to offend others, but I can't make everyone happy, either. I used to work in the corporate world, but now I freelance from home, which is why I know so much about happiness.

I love online swaps. I like drawing, painitng, collaging, writing, glasswork and art dolls. I like all things sensual. My favorite colors are black and white and red, although I also really love dark pink. I'm always looking for new and interesting blogs or online activities. I like it when people are polite and respectful. That's how I try to treat everyone. I hope you will treat me the same way.

I'm not too picky, and I'll be happy with whatever we trade, as long as you put in the time and effort to make it good. I always give 100% to my projects and expect others too also. I give hearts when I can tell you went above and beyond.

The one situation in which I will not give a heart is if we do an email swap and you send a group email without BCC (blind carbon copy). It's good netiquette to send individual emails individually or with BCC so that spammers don't get my email. I will still rate a five, but I probably won't give a heart, if you do what's otherwise required. If the instructions say to BCC or individually email, and you don't, that's my pet peeve.